Too often, I witness believers conforming to the world verses conforming to the Word of God. So many cliques are being established creating a blurred line and preventing many from differentiating those in Christ and those in the world. Be aware of how closely you connect with people because it's easy to begin conforming to the likeness of that person or group of people versus the likeness of Christ. Be who God created you to be and get to know Him in you so well that you always remain a reflection of Him.
If you ever feel like your attempt to be different causes you to look like a group aside from Christ or causes you to think a certain person isn't like you enough to be accepted, make the choice to step away and seek God in your secret place. Remember Christ-like groups embody diversity and leave room for acceptance of those who may not be the same.