How can one expect others to love them for who they are when they really don't know who they are? Constantly creating an image of who they believe other people would like them to be, but never living up to the image God created them to be.
No one will ever be able to truly love you until you accept, live, breathe, and become the essence of love. Mind you, this only occurs by having a relationship with God. God is love, so before having the expectation of everyone else loving a false image of you, allow God to completely overtake you with his love. We were created in the image of God, yet it became skewed by us trying to build our own image. Align your identity to Christ, receive revelation of who he designed you to be , and walk in the confidence of Christ. Know that true love is not contingent upon the acceptance of others, but is completely dependent upon the acceptance of Christ in your life. Invest in your relationship with God first and he will align the right individuals to come into your life.